Showering is a luxury

So here’s some tea, Were you lucky enough to take a shower before dinner time? I envy you. After becoming a mother I didn’t realize how small things such as showering becomes a luxury. You may laugh but I’m serious certain things are not easy or possible to do with a little one around. WhenContinue reading “Showering is a luxury”

Ethnicity – I am biracial

So here’s some tea, I am a product of a biracial couple; my mother is Canadian with Irish descent and my father was born and raised in Jamaica. I resemble my mother but have a lot of my father’s features. Such as the caramel complexion, curly hair and dermatosis papulosa nigra (small black or brownContinue reading “Ethnicity – I am biracial”

Mom Fail Fridays – Give me boobie NOW!

So here’s some tea, Oops I did it again…. another fail. With a million things on my mind and trying to get everything done, I didn’t realize we’ve been out of the house for more than three hours. Olessia was yelling at me and to be honest it was making me more anxious to hurryContinue reading “Mom Fail Fridays – Give me boobie NOW!”

Judgement free zone – Mommy shame

So here’s some tea, We’ve all dealt with some sort of mommy shade or shame, from the day we found out we were pregnant to the rearing of our little ones. It’s enviable, it will happen if you like it or not. Trust me I wish it wouldn’t happen. It would be nice if asContinue reading “Judgement free zone – Mommy shame”

Heaven sent (basic) activities for a busy baby

So here’s some tea, Keeping your bubs entertained is task all on its own. If your little one is like mine who is very active and constantly needs to be occupied, you can understand. With the 1 year mark just around the corner, Olessia is discovering something new everyday. I made it my mission toContinue reading “Heaven sent (basic) activities for a busy baby”

Mom fail Fridays – I’m a sweary mom

So here’s some tea, Mom fail Fridays are here again and it’s my second favourite ‘F word’. I didn’t realize how often I use my first favourite F word. Cursing has been apart of my vocabulary for years and in its own twisted way mixed in with sarcasm is my form of expression. If anyoneContinue reading “Mom fail Fridays – I’m a sweary mom”

Babies & their milestones

So here’s some tea, The years you spend focusing on yourself are long gone and the main event is the creature you created. Being a mom isn’t for the faint hearted, It’s more than just making sure everyone is clean and fed. You constantly worry about if your child is hitting their development milestones requiredContinue reading “Babies & their milestones”

Letter to my daughter- He’s the father I never had

Dear Olessia, One day you’ll be big enough to realize that your father would give you nothing less than the world. Since the day you were born a light has been lit in him that I’ve never seen before. I watched a man become a father. He fell in love with a girl and thatContinue reading “Letter to my daughter- He’s the father I never had”

Mom fail Fridays – they feed off our reactions

So here’s some tea, It’s mom fail Friday! You know what that means another little story or tidbit of a fail of mine. Children feed off of our reactions, if they hurt themselves they look to you to either cry more or stop entirely. We are our own worst enemies though, as parents we areContinue reading “Mom fail Fridays – they feed off our reactions”

Baby number two?

So here’s some tea, In the past few months I’ve had a serious fever, baby fever. It could be the fact my little one is growing up so fast and I want her to have a sibling. Or many of my mommy friends are about to pop out another one. Baby fomo, is that aContinue reading “Baby number two?”